Alas,Cupid, you fail me again.

I give up. Honest to gosh I do. I'm to the point in my life where I want to find someone and settle down. So bad to the point where I'm just down right lonely. Everytime I seem to make a connection with someone, they disappear. I'm not kidding. The last two times, the dude has just..vanished. Like he was a figment of my imagination. Then it seems any other guy that shows a remote intrest, only wants to get me in bed for a night. I'll admit, I hate rejection as much as the next person, but come on guys.I'm not easy. I don't get around. I'm not looking for something purely physical. I need that connection,I CRAVE it. That being said, it still doesn't take away the sting of rejection when a guy stops talking to you when you won't give it up to him. So I ask, why? Why why why?